Kids who eat meals with their families are:
Studies show that kids from elementary school to high school who ate dinner with their families more than 4 times a week had better test scores. Young children and babies who listened to parents around the table improved their language skills, too.
In addition to limiting TV time and getting enough sleep, kids who eat meals with family members are more confident and stay at a healthy weight.
Your kids learn from you. Your children watch what you do. At the table, if your kids see you enjoying a healthy meal, they will follow in your footsteps. So choose healthy!
Conversation time. Because everyone gathers together, meal times are the perfect times to sit down and talk as a family. Remember to talk positively, but honestly. Discuss problems at some other place and time.
No electronics. Televisions, phones, tablets, and computers are a real distraction from quality time with the family. Meal times should encourage person-to-person conversation.
Get your family involved. Everyone should be a part of meal time. Let everyone participate in shopping for groceries, cooking, eating, and cleaning up afterwards!
Choices. You shouldn’t have to cook around picky eaters, but you can give kids options between which fruits or vegetables they would like. This will make them more willing to eat what they’ve chosen.
Make the healthy choice, the easy choice. Keep fresh fruit and vegetables on hand and within reach as healthy and delicious snacks. If your family eats healthy, so will your kids.
Enjoy. Food isn’t the only thing to enjoy at meals. Eating meals together helps to improve family connections. Savor every moment and every delicious bite!
SOME THINGS ARE JUST BETTER TOGETHER. LIKE BREAKFAST.
IT HELPS KIDS GROW, LEARN, AND PLAY.
Better Breakfast Tips:
Breakfast is the most important meal of the day, especially for children and teenagers.
Children who eat breakfast do better in school and feel better throughout the day.
Sitting down with your children helps them feel confident and connect with you.
Weekends (or days that you and your family are free) are good times have breakfast together.
Here is a 5-by-5 take on quick ways to get the day off to a great start for yourself or your whole family!
Not everyone can eat a family meal around a table three times a day.
If you can’t squeeze in mealtime, fit in some snacks!
It doesn’t have to be fancy as long as you eat together!
Go slowly. Try to snack together once or twice a week in the beginning.
Start simple. Preparing healthy snacks ahead of time can save you time. Store snacks until you’re ready to eat.
No electronics. Turning off all electronics will create a calm atmosphere for your family’s meal.
Get everyone involved. Let your family help you shop, choose their favorite healthy snack, set the table, or make the snack.
Relax and connect. Enjoy healthy foods while connecting with your family and friends.
THEY LEARN FROM WATCHING YOU.
Dip grapes in one cup low-fat vanilla yogurt mixed with a spoonful of peanut butter.
Dip a handful of pretzels in honey mustard and add string cheese.
Dip a handful of tortilla chips in salsa with black beans mixed in.
SOME THINGS ARE JUST BETTER TOGETHER. LIKE MAKING SIMPLE SNACKS.
Top a graham cracker with two spoonfuls of cottage cheese and a little jelly.
Top mango slices with a squeeze of lime juice and a pinch of chili powder.
Top banana slices with peanut butter and raisins.
SNACKS + YOU = SMILES
5 stalks celery
½ cup peanut butter
¼ cup raisins
Cream cheese with dried cranberries or grapes.
Peanut butter with yellow raisins and chocolate chips.
Yogurt with animal crackers.
Snacks can help children get the nutrients needed to grow. Prepare snacks that include two or more food groups. For younger children, help them get just enough to satisfy their hunger. Let older kids make their own snacks by keeping healthy foods in the kitchen. Visit ChooseMyPlate.gove to help you and your kids select a satisfying snack.
Brought to you by the United States Department of Agriculture. DG TipSheet No. 24, March 2013, Revised October 2016.
Life is busy, but it is possible to eat together as a family.
Try fitting in dinner after work or sports practice.
To save time and help scheduling, try creating simple meals. You can even cook and freeze meals the weekend before or whenever you have time, and then heat them up for a quick and tasty meal during the week.
Dinner doesn’t have to be fancy. Eating together is what counts.
Go slowly. In the beginning, don’t expect your family to eat together every day. It will take time to develop this habit. Try setting a starting goal of one to two times per week.
Start simple. Cook meals ahead of time that you can freeze, reheat, and share with your family at your convenience.
A calm environment. Anything that can disrupt your meal (including electronics like phones, TVs, or video games) should be turned off and put away. Without these distractions, everyone will be more relaxed and concentrated on spending time together.
Involvement. Make sure everyone is involved in the meal process. This includes brainstorming, shopping, cooking, eating, and cleaning.
Relax and connect. Keep dinner conversation fun. Share any and all positive events of the day. Tell jokes and funny stories. Ask each other riddles. Encourage your kids to share things that make them laugh.
Fitting meals around an entire family’s busy schedule makes it hard to have “family dinners” together. However, family mealtime is extremely beneficial for children.
Research suggests that having dinner together four times a week has positive effects on child development. Family dinners have been linked to lower risk of obesity, substance abuse, eating disorders, and an increased chance of graduating from high school.
Eating dinner with family provides time for conversation. Parents can teach healthy communication skills without distractions from smart phones, television, computers, or other electronic devices.
Engaging your children in conversation teaches them how to listen and gives them a chance to voice their opinions. This allows your children to have an active voice in the family.
Regular conversation at the dinner table expands a child’s vocabulary and reading ability, regardless of socioeconomic status. Family dinners also allow family members to discuss their day and share news.
Family meals provide a sense of security and togetherness that help nurture children into healthy, well-rounded adults. Frequent family dinners have a positive impact on children’s values, motivation, personal identity, and self-esteem.
Children who eat dinner with their family are more likely to understand, acknowledge, and follow the boundaries and expectations set by their parents. A decrease in high-risk behaviors is related to a greater amount of time spent with family—especially during family dinners.
To make the most of your family mealtime, follow these guidelines:
Your children learn healthy eating habits from you; eating dinner together provides a model of healthy eating for children to take with them into adulthood. Studies show that families who eat together increase fruit and vegetable intake; they eat fewer fried foods and drink less soda; and family meal frequency is linked to the intake of protein, calcium, and some vitamins.
Mealtime suggestions:
Daily family dinners require effort to plan, but their benefits in mental and physical health are more than worth it.
Better Dinner Tips: